On our one year anniversary, I decided to do something a little different. I wanted to tell our testimony of what we
BOTH went through before God eventually brought us together! In this brief narrative, you will get to hear from both sides of our story. For convenience, I have made our story available in text and soon video format. I hope you enjoy! :) -Priscilla
Priscilla: I remember the first time I laid eyes on him...it was at a Generation X Concert on August 22, 2009 which was hosted by a mutual friends church at the time...Bread Of Life. I just remember thinking, man that guy can really sing! I honestly do not think he even noticed me that night. However, after a few Reflect services a year later at Image Student Ministries (ISM), I began to fall in love with his voice.
Marcus:
Priscilla: I started attending Sunday night services and ISM's Mid-week service off and on throughout the year after I was re-baptized on May 2, 2010. There was a constant tug in my spirit to go back to North Cities even though I was a member at another church...
Fast forward to 2011- I officially joined my current church at the end of January and was learning to hear the voice of God clearly as He started using me to pray for others in the altar. It wasn't until Spring that I
really began to pay more attention to him and even told our mutual friend that I liked him......that was until I found out his age. At this point, I was interested in becoming friends and getting to know him better because he seemed like a cool person, but I felt like he may have misinterpreted my friendliness and sorta pushed me away...
Marcus:
Priscilla: As time went on, I began to pursue God and started to have a few visions and dreams of which a few have come to pass. I was eager to receive confirmation from the Lord about my calling along with some other things I had been praying about, so I asked Him to show me on a specific date He brought to my mind. In the past, the Lord would bring specific dates to my mind when I would seek him in prayer about certain things...other times I would speak it out in faith and He always came through! God answered that prayer On March 23, 2011 as Bro Joe Ellis confirmed in the Holy Ghost what I sought the Lord on.
I remember being completely broken that day bawling before the preaching even began because God was ministering to my spirit throughout the day. I continued to work the altar as usual that night and at one point I saw
B across the room on his knees praying before the Lord in his red shirt and blue jeans. :) I inquired of the Lord in my spirit these exact words "Aww, what's
B still doing in the altar? I already prayed for him." I then felt an impression in my heart/spirit "that's my husband." I thought I either
heard wrong or was
loosing my mind and I dismissed any idea of being with him until I had another vision Mid-April where the Lord showed me something specific he has in store for the both of us.
Marcus:
Priscilla: Even though I had a few more visions and dreams, words of "confirmation" from others who do not know either one of us, and God using people around me to confirm some things I have seen in those visions and dreams...I had a few Gideon moments where I wanted to test the Lord through a series of "If this is your will, then let this happen..." and so on.
Marcus:
Priscilla: For a while, I wished that God would have just told me a simple "no" as He had done in the past with other guys and I remember asking Him, "why, why God did you show me this?" Life was sooo much simpler not knowing some things. Looking back now, I realize the Lord showed me some visions or dreams in advance (not only to teach me to have faith when He brings them to pass) so that I could intercede for His will to be done, have encouragement in the Lord, and....
Marcus:
Priscilla: I reached a point in my walk where enough was enough and I begged God to take away every feeling I ever had for this man from my heart completely. I could not stand having feelings for him while he was with someone else whom he considered "walking down the aisle with" and his family already adored her. I found a sister in Christ to stand in agreement with me, and shortly after praying...I saw him the following Sunday. I no longer felt any attachment or strong feelings for this man
even though I still cared about him reaching his full potential and calling in Christ. I
n my attempt to try and move on, I started dating another guy whom I grew fond of overtime.
Marcus:
Priscilla: Even though I had let go of him and left him to God, I still thought about him occasionally and would keep him in my prayers as he came to mind. Even in my letting go, something about him still drew me to him...
Marcus:
Priscilla: I reached a certain point where I became discouraged "waiting" on God's promises to manifest that I sort of threw in the towel and gave up praying for "him." It was almost like telling God, "I'm tired, I give up! Three years is wayyy too long to wait in my book." Despite the children and calling He showed me, I grew weary holding onto His promises overtime. I basically developed the "Que sera sera" (whatever will be, will be) attitude. Three years went by and I decided to move onto another relationship.
Marcus:
Priscilla: I reached a place where I knew I had to surrender all by "letting go and letting God," so I laid him on the altar one last time. Despite all the visions, dreams, and prophetic confirmation...I knew in my heart it was the right thing to do. It was a scary place to be in because I often wondered if His will had changed overtime, but it allowed me to put my total trust in God.
Marcus:
Priscilla: I believe God ultimately used the situation we were both placed in to grow the necessary patience I needed in order to be a mother and wife in my life.
Even though we know that for those who love God, all things work together for the good for those who are called according to His purpose... DO NOT give up on the promises of God for your life!!! If He has showed you something, stand firm on the Word of God and even put Him in remembrance of His Word. There is power in the tongue and when you speak things forth, you release things into the spirit realm. That is why we ought to bless and not curse one another.
EXAMPLE BELOW:
Anthony: It was a hot Sabbath day after church and my friend, Kenya, said she would take me over to meet Maeling if I’d stop harassing her about it. So over we went…
Maeling: I was chatting with a few of my girlfriends after church, when Kenya walked over and introduced us to one of her friends, Anthony. It was funny because my friends and I were just joking about how there weren’t any guys our age at this particular church. Anthony seemed very polite and we shook hands …
A: I walked over cool, calm and collected. I said hi and shook her hand and promptly looked away. I was nervous after that.
M: Well after being introduced, the group of us started talking about dinner plans and decided to get together for dinner. We invited Anthony to come along with us, but he said he already had plans but said he would try and stop by later.
A: So after I said I would catch up with them later, I tried not to run back to my car because I was so excited, and I had to make it back to see Maeling. So I got in “Bertha” and was driving like a mad man all the way to the Southside while they were over in Midtown. I got to my aunt’s house, said my hello’s, ate some food and promptly drove back to Midtown. By the way, the food was good ( Just in case you’re reading this auntie). I finally made it to this Indian cuisine place, where I knew I wasn’t going to like it all…but Maeling was there. It was hot, I was nervous, hands were sweating, face was greasy but I was going in. Because it’s rare you find somebody so beautiful.
M: So we ended up at this Indian place for dinner, which I absolutely loved! We were all having a great time chatting, when Anthony showed up and ended up sitting across from me at the table. He didn’t come across very talkative, but that changed when I mentioned that I had been living in Atlanta for several years but hadn’t really explored the city.
A: There were a couple seats open. One at the end of the table, and one directly across from her, so obviously I chose the one directly across from her. I didn’t want her to forget my face. I wanted to talk to her, but I didn’t want it to seem like that was the only reason I came to the dinner (you know I gotta play it cool). So I just chimed in here and there, whenever there was something I could relate to. I was surrounded by a whole bunch of females, which isn’t a bad thing…but I was only focused on one that day. I asked Maeling how long she had been living in Atlanta, and she said she had been living here for years. Then I thought to myself, geez Louise this girl has been here that long and this is the first time I’ve seen her? Crazy man, crazy. Smh (inside my head though…Gotta keep it cool. You know what I’m saying.) So she started asking me how long I had been living in Atlanta and where were some cool places to hang. I think she was just being nice for conversation. And then she joked about me being her tour guide of Atlanta but I was dead serious when I heard her say that. I was definitely going to take her up on that offer.
M: During our conversation at the table, I discovered that Anthony was born and raised in Atlanta. I then started to joke with him that he should be my tour guide of the city since I had been living in Atlanta for a while, but hadn’t really explored the surrounding areas. Well, after that, there wasn’t much more talking between me and Anthony at the table. After dinner though, we were all outside discussing our plans for the rest of the evening. I love to salsa dance and suggested that idea to the group. Everyone was up for it and Anthony even said he would try and join us later.
A: Yea…I had never danced before in my life. I wasn’t sure if I was going to make it or not. But I had to make sure that when she closed her eyes that night, she saw me. So a brother was going to get out there and try. So I went home and googled salsa dancing clothes. After I got some images, I looked in my closet and not one thing in my closet looked like what I saw. So I just put on a shirt with some shoes and said I hope she doesn’t think I look like a bum. I wanted to look good because I knew I wasn’t going to dance well. Kenya was texting me and was telling me to hurry up, so I hopped in “Bertha” and hightailed it to Kenya’s so we could meet up with Mae.
M: I arrived at the salsa spot with my friend Candyce and was super excited about actually using the new latin ballroom dancing shoes I had just purchased! We decided to wait around for the others before we started dancing though. Some of my other friends joined us and we were ready to roll when we realized that Kenya hadn’t arrived yet. We knew she didn’t live that far away so we were confused as to what the hold up was. That is when we were informed that she was waiting for Anthony to get to her place so they could ride over together. So yea…it was all Anthony’s fault.
A: When I walked in the door, the music was blaring and there she was, spinning in circles with her little fro. I didn’t know she was “Natural Chica” at that point. I went over scared out of my mind, because I was looking at these guys’ feet moving and I knew my feet weren’t going to move like that. Candyce and Kenya were helping me get my bearings out there, because I was definitely tripping over my feet. Candyce was counting out loud and telling me not to look at my feet. Then finally Mae decided to come over after she was done spinning around, to help this struggling brother. Finally I started catching on, and she said, let’s go to the main floor. And we started dancing.. So I was excited. I didn’t want to step on her feet. I was nervous about that part, so I was looking down. And then she started talking to me but I couldn’t hear what she was saying. I was hoping it wasn’t anything important and I didn’t want to lean in because she might have thought I was trying to kiss her or something, so I just said “uh huh”. To this day, I didn’t know what she was saying, because she talks so quietly. It was beautiful. Her hands in mine, moving to the rhythm of the salsa beat.
M: I was honestly surprised that Anthony even showed up. After all it was just him and a bunch of us women. (Wait…I guess that could make some sense). In any case, we were all having a great time, but I did notice that Anthony had never gone salsa dancing before so I decided to help him learn the basic salsa steps. He actually caught on pretty quickly, although it was hard to keep him from looking down. We did get to dance together for a bit that evening. Overall, it was an exciting night just getting to hang with my buddies and making a new friend.
A: The funny thing about this night was that I was ripping and running all over the place just trying to be in this girl’s face and she had no idea. I left that night without her phone number or email because it was the first day that I had met her and I didn’t want to be pushy. I figured we’d cross paths again (Gotta play it cool) I left that night so pumped because I knew that if things went right, she could be the one.
From that very first encounter, we planted a seed of friendship that has bloomed into an amazing love. We are so happy to be at this point in our lives and grateful to God for blessing us with each other. We look to Him as we begin this union and at the same time, we feel extremely blessed to have the love and support of our family and friends.
Almost 5 years ago, Broc caught my eye. He was handsome and charming...and I...well, I was a Facebook stalker.
Yes. It all started on Facebook....but like so oh-so-many short-lived Facebook crushes before us, we quickly lost touch and went about our lives. Honestly, this was probably the best thing that could have happened...because we both had a lot of maturing to do.
Life happened and we soon found ourselves setting out on our own separate directions. In fact, not only did life take us in different directions.....but it took us to opposite ends of the country. I began college at Howard Payne University in Brownwood, Texas, and Broc moved back up north to attend Indiana Bible College in Indianapolis, Indiana.
Ironically enough, we somehow managed to "miss one another" time and time again at various conferences, events, and hang-outs. I distinctly remember attending a conference in Lufkin, Texas when Broc was home on break from college. I spotted him across the tabernacle and pointed him out to a friend of mine, knowing that he looked SO familiar to me. When I asked who he was, she replied that he was from out-of-state but she thought he was married. It wasn't until years later that I found out that he had been there at the conference and made the connection.
Broc was always "THAT GUY" for me.....the one that I checked up on from time to time to see what was happening in his life. He was the one guy that I always thought about....even though we never had anything even close to a relationship before. I didn't quite understand what it was....but I knew that he was a catch and that who ever was with him was definitely a lucky lady!
In April 2012, Broc and I reconnected randomly through Facebook again (thanks to an adorable picture of him in coveralls..hehe) and we began to text. I would like to tell you that it was a fairytale beginning....but I was finishing my last month of my business degree and wasn't really sure that I was ready to commit to anything but my own dreams to move to Austin after college....so I gave him the run-around for several weeks. He was definitely patient with me.
I wasn't looking for anything......and so it caught me off guard when I began to have feelings for him. I had been so dead-set on "not belonging to anyone but me"....but I soon realized that I wanted to be something to him. Something important. I fell in love with him before our first date....and on the way home, I called my mother in tears because I knew I had found the man I was going to marry.
Long-distance relationships are tough, but thanks to Facetime and unlimited text messages we made it through the longest summer of my life as Broc interned as a youth pastor in Detroit the summer of 2012. He moved back to Dallas at the end of the summer...and the rest is history.
Broc has been my rock...my best friend...my partner-in-crime...my love. I am so excited to be his wife soon...mother of his future little Broc-lettes...and partner in ministry. I am marrying my best friend...and there is nothing sweeter. I never imagined that I'd find someone so wonderful....he's a God-thing in my life. I'm so excited for this milestone in our story together and the many happy years ahead as husband and wife.
